Que sera, sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be)

Ever thought about why things are not going the way you want? I had these feelings in different stages of life, till I understood the bigger cause.

It may seem that, everyone and everything is racing ahead and you have so much to achieve. How much you try hard, you always fall behind, not even one thing is in your favour.

Here’s a quick perspective that can provide comfort, trust, and a sense of flow in life.

🕰️ Timing: There is a divine or cosmic timing that governs the unfolding of events in our lives. It implies that there is a larger plan or order at work, and things happen when they are meant to.

🛤️ Individual Paths: Each person has their own unique journey, and the timing of events is tailored to their specific needs, growth, and lessons. What may be right for someone else may not be right for us at a particular moment.

🧘🏻‍♂️ Trust and Patience: It encourages us to have faith and trust in the process of life. Even if things are not happening as quickly as we desire, the belief is that the right opportunities, experiences, and relationships will come to us in due time.

📚 Learning and Growth: Delays and setbacks may serve a purpose in our personal development. They can provide valuable lessons, strength, resilience, or self-awareness that will prepare us for what lies ahead.

🌟 Serendipity and Synchronicity: Acknowledge the existence of serendipitous moments and synchronicities—meaningful coincidences that occur when the timing aligns perfectly. It suggests that the universe conspires to bring together the right circumstances, people, and resources for our benefit.

🧎🏻‍♂️Avoiding Regret: Believing in the right timing can prevent us from rushing into decisions or pursuing things prematurely. It encourages us to be patient and avoid regret by allowing events to unfold naturally instead of forcing outcomes.

🪐 Alignment with the Universe: The concept implies that when we are aligned with our true selves and the flow of the universe, things effortlessly fall into place. It encourages us to focus on inner growth, self-awareness, and cultivating positive energy to attract the right opportunities.

🏄🏻‍♂️ Enjoying the Present: Embracing the idea that everything comes at the right time helps us appreciate the present moment. It allows us to find contentment and joy in the journey, rather than constantly striving for the next achievement or outcome.

😇 Recognizing Blessings: Sometimes, we may not initially understand why certain things didn't work out or why we experienced delays. However, looking back, we may realize that those situations were blessings in disguise and led us to something better.

🤹🏻‍♀️ Personal Responsibility: While we trust in the right timing, it's important to recognize that we still have a role to play. We need to take proactive steps, set goals, and work towards them. The concept doesn't imply passivity but rather a balance between effort and surrender.

A beautiful song that I first heard in early 2005, by Doris Day

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xZbKHDPPrrc

When I was just a little girl

I asked my mother, what will I be

Will I be pretty? Will I be rich?

Here's what she said to me

Qué será, será

Whatever will be, will be

The future's not ours to see

Qué será, será

What will be, will be

When I grew up and fell in love

I asked my sweetheart what lies ahead?

Will we have rainbows day after day?

Here's what my sweetheart said

Qué será, será

Whatever will be, will be

The future's not ours to see

Qué será, será

What will be, will be

Now I have children of my own

They ask their mother, what will I be

Will I be handsome? Will I be rich?

I tell them tenderly

Qué será, será

Whatever will be, will be

The future's not ours to see

Qué será, será

What will be, will be

Qué será, será